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Us women have one hell of a hard time to get guys to listen to us whine and vent and just let it all out. They freeze up and shut down. So, how do yo get your boyfriend/husband to understand that you need to vent and you need him to hear you out? Well, you sort of can’t convince him at all to do this, because it’s their natural reaction to women complaining or whining or packing with emotion. The only thing to do is re-adjust your approach.

Instead of sounding whiny or complaining about something- you should phrase it as in a way where you’re consulting for advice and his point of view. For example, don’t come at him by saying ” I just hate that girl at work, etc.” Instead ask him “I would like your perspective on an issue concerning work?”

Sure, this sounds preposterous being that you’re clearly upset and that you have to choose your wording carefully so that your boyfriend/husband will listen to you. Sadly, with most guys this is the only alternative, because guys as soon as they hear you complain, they begin to try to solve the issue and this keeps them from really listening to you and being compassionate about your feelings.

Another way to vent without even getting your boyfriend/husband involved is keeping a journal where you can go crazy like a mad woman about whatever it is that’s bothering you. You can also keep a private blog or one that you only share with close friends and they can comment and advise you on issues. After doing this then maybe you can talk about it with your partner in a calmer manner in which he’ll gladly listen and not shut down.

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While you think that your man is a horn ball that only craves for sex, he might be craving something else. Of course, he will have sex as many times as you allow him to have you but what you didn’t know is that he’s a cuddly creature as well and sometimes is just craving for some sweet moves, he may just want to hold you or be held.

Sweet Moves Men Crave that you never knew:

• - Spooning in bed. He just wants to be close to you.

• - Kissing you in Public. This is not suppose to be raunchy, it just means he wants to show the world that he totally adores you with a nice big kiss.

• - Linking arms while taking a walk.

• - Taking bubble baths with you.

• - Cute pet names ans exchanging loveable text messages with you.

Basically, everything you’ve heard about guys not being romantic or cuddly is all bogus. They’re totally romantic and enjoy the intimacy of holding your hand,cuddling, spooning and all that awesome, sweet stuff. So don’t go around anymore thinking that your man only wants sex. It’s certainly on top of his list, but there are many other things that he likes to do with you. So if you’ve become somewhat detached, try one of these sweet moves that he’s probably craving for. You’ll both thrive on the endearing time spent together.

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Relationship Advice on What Is He Thinking Before Sex?

Men cheat for all kinds of reasons. Some may feel sexually deprived at home, some are just sick of their girlfriends or wives, others need more attention, others are just not content with one partner. While all these reasons mentioned above are at the top of the list of why men cheat, there’s one I didn’t mention…Sometimes men cheat because they need someone to confide in, they don’t want to appear weak. According to experts, men feel pressured to be appear strong and confident for their significant other.

If they feel remotely like you’re going to judge them harshly, they won’t confide in you. They’re afraid that you view them as less than capable. So sometimes men turn to be consoled by other women. They feel like they can open up with their mistresses. They don’t just cheat, but they open up their hearts to them and share intimate details about their relationship. Their mistresses/lovers are not just a way to get laid but they use them for that so called emotional outlet.

If you want to avoid a situation such as this. Share something you’re not exactly feeling great about with him. Demonstrate to him that you as well are sometimes vulnerable to circumstances. This will make him feel more comfortable about discussing his concerns, fears, worries and vulnerabilities with you without feeling the need to go elsewhere to do so and get it on while he’s at it.

Besides this being a cheat-proofing technique for your relationship it will also bring you closer and the trust and bond will grow between the both of you. Nowadays, there’s a lot of pressure on us woman to being strong and emotionless and in control at all times. But that’s an unrealistic. We’re all vulnerable and we should be able to share are feelings with our partners without the fear of being rejected or judged.

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Ever feel like your man is not paying attention? Or that he’s dismissing what your saying or even taking it the wrong way? It just might be that you’re not imagining this and it’s all true in fact.- He’s not listening and he’s dismissing whatever you are saying because it’s rubbing him the wrong way. We got some cool tips on ways to talk to your boyfriends and husbands. However, this doesn’t mean to tip toe around your guy. At the end of the day, it’s not like they’re perfectly tactful themselves. But, two rights don’t make a wrong and you just want to get him to listen up…

Ways to Talk to Him So That He’ll Listen:

• - Don’t ask “Are you listening to me?“

Rather than asking tha,t rephrase it with something like “You’re so great at making me feel cared for and good, but I sense you’re not here with me right now.”

Why you should do this: Guys need constant praise and encouragement, as soon as they feel criticized (even if you’re not, you’re just staying something as you see it) they’ll tune you right out. You give him a little praise he’ll be motivated to listen.

• - Don’t say “We don’t spend enough time together!“

Rephrase that original thought with “We should figure out a way in which we can spend more time together. I miss you so much.” He’ll be smittened to say the least. Then he’ll be more than willing to figure out ways for you guys to spend more time with each other.

Why this works: You’re not complaining and your presenting it as something you can both work on together.

So with men and I suppose with women as well, the more praise and encouragement the better to bring us together. No one likes to be made to feel guilty via blunt, sometimes insensitive or whiny comments. Be honest but just configure your comments in a way that won’t make him feel like you’re criticizing him or complaining to him about the way he is. This should work like a charm and you’ll have him listening to you in no time.

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So you’re not living with your guy but you spend a whole lot of time at his place. Well, that’s awesome because that indicates that things are going really well for both of you. That being said, it’s safe to assume that it’s “Okay” to bring and have a few of your personal belongings at his place and vice versa. You see, new couples all in love and in the misty fog of it all, start using each others’ things which is also, awesome and real cute and definitely endearing. But some things you just shouldn’t use at his place, unless they are yours.

Here’s a small list of just a few things you shouldn’t use at his place:

• - His Toothbrush. It’s just gross, don’t do it. Just because you exchange saliva while making out, doesn’t mean you have to share your morning breath and bacteria via a toothbrush. Bring your own and keep it next to his. ( Just to add to the cuteness.)

• - His Razor. Bacteria from his skin and the shower stays stuck and live in the blades. This can cause shaved induced rashes and even infection. Again keep your own razor at his place.

• - Don’t Use His 2-IN-1 Shampoo. 2-IN-1 shampoo formulas lack cuticle sealing moisturizers that are found in traditional conditioners. This may cause your hair to become, dry, brittle and coarse. You can chance it, but if you want to keep your hair pretty and soft, we strongly suggest that you also, keep your own shampoo and conditioner at his place.

Once you have these crucial items at his place you can borrow/share everything else at his place and glorify in it. As I mentioned before, if you’re spending a lot of time at his place, that you even shower there and brush your teeth, most likely things are going really well and you should be as happy as can be, but you still want to keep your hair pretty and not get any rashes, so along with yourself bring a couple of your own belongings.

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