How To Handle An Office Fling

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office flingBeen feeling wildly attracted to a co-worker who gets cow eyed and giggly every time he or she walks into the room? What should you do? Well the answer is simple: YOU DO NOTHING! Flings happen all the time and even more in the office. It would be best if you were to play out all your dreams and fantasies in your head, exhausting every romantic notion you feel creeping into your consciousness. Chances are that the butterflies will come and go keep in mind butterflies, both real and metaphorical, have a short lifespan. Here’s how to handle and office fling.

How-To

1. Stay Professional

You have to stay professional in the workplace. If you start behaving in an unprofessional way, then things can get very bad very quickly. By acting professional, however, you xan keep things in perspective…and make sure you keep your job.

2. Don’t Let Them Walk Over You

Feelings can be taken advantage by some people because of their willingness. It can be tempting to invite your fling for lunch or some coffee, but that is human nature. However your crush might not necessarily feel the same way and might be willing to reap the benefits of the nice gestures you give them.

3. Look The Right Way

Not only should you try to avoid staring all googly eyed at your fling while a work, it is also unprofessional to stare like that. Besides, moody stares can reveal your feelings quicker than anything else.

4. Keep Up With Reality

It is not uncommon at all for someone to begin to fantasize or even dream about their office flame. When spending so much time at work, it is hard not to confuse those fantasies with reality, It is important to keep your feet grounded;moreover; keep your fantasy life completely separate from your work life.

5. Be Realistic

Being realistic to the end is another must. Does your company frown upon dating within the office? Does your fling feel the same way about you; as you do with them? Don’t let you common sense be blurred by your feelings; stay leveled headed and keep everything within a realistic perspective

6. Keep Cool

Always keep your cool when possible. Don’t get giggly, don’t let your crush have that effect over you. If needed, just pretend that your fling isn’t there at all, even more so if you need to keep it at a professional level.

7. Weigh the Consequences

If this is what you think you want from your crush; a relationship, you need to being to think about the consequences. What happens if don’t work out? Will this affect your job? You also need to consider how the working conditions will be during and after the relationship. If there are more cons than pros, again keep your fantasy life completely separate from your working life. At the end most office romances do work, but when they don’t it can get a bit awkward.

Best Places To Meet Singles in Toronto

If you’re single and looking for love in Toronto, you are probably wondering where to find all the eligible singles in the city. It’s not always easy to meet people, and some singles in the city have started to feel like it’s a lost cause. Fear not, because we’ve compiled a list of some of the best places to meet single people in Toronto.


The Drake Hotel

Drake Hotel TorontoAmong the shops and galleries of Queen Street, this classic hotel seems to attract good-looking singles from all over the Toronto area. The top-notch food features farm-to-table eating, and the cocktails are both pricey and delicious. Somehow the combination manages to bring in a wide range of potential partners, so check out The Drake Hotel.

 

Toronto Transit

toronto ttc trainYou may not think of your commute as a place to meet people, but plenty of singles have met a match this way. You tend to see some of the same people on your commute every day, and sooner or later, this can lead to striking up a conversation. So don’t keep your nose buried in a book every day. This is a good opportunity, so look around and start noticing who else is there.

 

 

The Victory CafeVictory Cafe Toronto

Winter or summer, you can find some serious singles action happening at the Victory Cafe. During the summer, the outdoor patio is the place to be. In wintertime, the cozy bar inside is where people mingle. You’ll find plenty of singles hanging around by the fire, or in the little snug room, and firelight has been known to spark some romances. Visit their website for more info.

Grocery stores

It may sound like a cliché or an urban myth, but it really is possible to meet eligible singles at the grocery store. If you shop in the stores around Little Italy, Liberty Village, or the Yonge-Eglinton Centre, you’re sure to find a bunch of singles with their baskets, foraging for dinner options. Try striking up a conversation about organic green beans or the best frozen entrees.

Cameron House Toronto

 

The Cameron House

This is a gathering place for writers, musicians, and other artistic types. During the evening, the live music attracts the after-work crowd, who flock here to enjoy a pint and some entertainment. It’s a mixed scene with a lot of possibilities, so spend some time watching the crowd too, not just the show on stage. Check out who they have booked online, so you know what kind of atmosphere to expect.

 

 

The Bier Markt

Bier Markt TorontoThe motto here is “Beer is beautiful,” and you’ll find a range of beers to pair with the European brasserie style cuisine. You’ll also find a lot of singles who come here both for the beer and the crowd. On weeknights about 5pm, the Esplanade location has a sizable singles crowd. On a Saturday night, try the King West location for meeting other singles. Visit their website for other locations.

 

Missed Connections

This Craigslist section has a quirky following, but it really does work for some people. Scan the lists, and see if there’s somebody looking for you, or put up your own post for the lovely lady you see on your way home every day. If you’re a patient romantic, just make checking the listings here part of your normal routine, and who knows what could turn up?

Is it a Relationship or Summer Fling?

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Summer is the season for pool parties, barbecues, and trips to the beach. For many single people, it is also an opportunity to have a summer fling. All that outdoor activity and summer fun can get people thinking of romance. Sometimes you meet somebody while you’re both on vacation, and you know in advance that when fall comes, you’ll be heading off to different cities.

Whether you’ll be staying in the same place or not at the end of the summer, the question that may be running through your mind is, “Is this just a summer fling, or could it lead to something more serious?” Here are some clues to look for. No single item is an indicator of a long-term relationship, but these are all positive signs.

1. You really like each other

Aside from the lust involved in a new relationship, do you truly enjoy spending time with each other? Do you truly like each other? It’s actually pretty easy to have a fling with somebody who is fun for awhile, knowing that you don’t really like them enough to make it long term. Think about how you feel, and see what you can tell about how they feel, too. If you both really like each other as people, and enjoy your time together, that’s a good start.

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2. You’re comfortable together

You know how some people always put you a little bit on edge, while other people make you instantly feel relaxed? While there’s a thrill to a fling with somebody in the first category, it doesn’t make for a long term relationship. Can you be yourself, or do you always feel like you’re trying to be something you’re not? For your fling to develop into more, you need to feel easy and comfortable around each other.

3. You both act “lovingly”

Does he do the little things that show he cares, like bringing your favorite wine for a romantic picnic? How about on your side? Did you remember his favorite dessert, and make it for him one evening? They say that actions speak louder than words, and that can be very true here. If you are both taking those steps that show you care about the other person, that is a good sign.

4. You have a rare closeness

This is hard to describe, but once you experience it, you know the feeling. When you’re together, you feel a certain rapport. It’s like a special kind of intimacy, and a shared understanding. Sometimes couples feel this very soon after they meet. For other people, it takes some time to develop. However it happens, this closeness can be a sign that you have something special.

Do you think about the future? When you allow yourself to daydream, do you see the two of you together sometime after summer ends? Has either of you ever mentioned getting together after August, like going to a concert together in November, or what you’re doing for Christmas? Even a casual mention can be a sign that there may be more to your romance than a summer fling.

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5 Ways To Enhance Your Penis

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No matter how large (or small) your penis is, if you’re like most men, chances are you’ve thought about ways to make it look bigger. Well, before countless pills flooded the market promising to add inches to your manhood, there were a few more “traditional” ways you could try and some length to your member.

 

Trim Your Man Bush

This is definitely the easiest method of all but that’s because you’re dealing with appearances instead of actual growth. If you have a huge man bush, doing some manscaping will surely make johnson seem a few inches longer.

 

Jelqing

This is a massage technique that focuses on the shaft. using lubrication, you form a circular grip with your thumb and pointer finger at the base of your penis. You then proceed to stretch your semi-erect penis upward until you reach the base of the head. Then, repeat… a couple of hundred times a day.

 

Penis Pumps

Experts agree that penis pumps do increase blood flow to the penis; making it easier to get an erection. However, it doesn’t necessarily make it permanently bigger.

 

Hanging Weights

This is one of the oldest penis enlargement techniques, and some people swear by it. A strap or rope is attached to one end of the penis and a weight hangs on the other end. The weight can be between 1/16 and ¼ pound. However, even studies that show it works agree that it usually reduces girth.

 

The Andropenis

We’ve saved the most sophisticated method for last. We’re sure the Andropenis got its name because it makes your penis look like one of R2-D2’s legs. Nevertheless, a number of sources claim that the device actually works, even though it does take extended use and may only increase your penis size by centimeters.

5 Secrets About Men Sex Ed Didn’t Teach You

Did you know that a recent survey by the CDC indicates that by high school 47% of students say they’ve had sex? However, even though nearly half of all high school students are sexually active, only 22 states in the US are required to teach sex education. Of those states, only 19 require that the sex education courses be medically accurate. Well, we can’t speak to the accuracy of any of the information below but one thing is for sure, even if you did attend a sex education class, they didn’t teach you any of this.

 

They Hate Wearing Condoms

If you had the benefit of attending a sex education class, you probably got a crash course on the proper way to wear a condom. But they they ever bother to teach you about sizes and quality? Chances are that if a rubber feels uncomfortable, it’s for a good reason. Maybe it’s poor quality or too small but the rule of thumb is, it should always feel good.

 

They’re Shallow

On the short list of interests for the “every man” is women… or maybe not women as much as sex itself. Sex and beer. Sex, beer and cars. Wait I was going somewhere with this, I swear.

 

They Love Boobs

It doesn’t matter what anyone says, men love boobs. Did I mention that they’re shallow?

 

 

 

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They Think with Their Penis

Did you ever hear that Chris Rock joke saying that men are only as faithful as his options? Yeah, that’s about right. Some married men may be the exception, but the women know who they are.

 Sex IS a Badge of Honor

At least for guys it is. There’s definitely a stigma against guys who are virgins; especially if they’re older than 18.