4 Principles To Make Any Woman Obsessed With You

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by Scotty The Oz ( Reposted from http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip172.htm)

I always found it interesting, as well as frustrating, that I have so much trouble getting the women I want, but have no trouble driving the women I don’t want absolutely crazy over me. I’m sure this same thing has baffled many of you.

I wanted to figure out why these women, whom I had no interest in, were so obsessed with me, so I then could try and apply these same principles to women that I did want. Therefore, I analyzed the past five women who were “obsessed” with me, and what I did to generate these feelings in them.

1) I rejected them.

I showed that I wasn’t interested. This showed a lot of CONFIDENCE. It made it seem like I had tons of girls to select from, and could pick and choose who I wanted to date. It also showed that I wasn’t desperate or needy for a woman.

2) I was a jerk.

I didn’t call back, ignored them, hit on other women right in front of them, etc. This showed that I was SECURE and didn’t need them. I could do and say whatever I wanted around them. I didn’t care if they got angry and walked away.

3) I occasionally gave them hope.

I’d call back, flirt or kiss them on the cheek (usually when I was drunk). Immediately after (when was sober), I returned to being a jerk. This made it seem like I was “weakening” a little and was just out of their reach. They became obsessed with “grabbing” me once and for all.

4) I remained uninterested.

This drove them crazy. They said to themselves, “Why doesn’t he want me? He must be a really CONFIDENT and INDEPENDENT guy if he’s turning down dates. He must have girls all over him. He must really be SPECIAL. I have to have him!!!”

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How to Take A Sexy Selfie

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Tips on a Taking a Sexy Selfie

 

Everyone does it!  The mirror selfie, the stuck in traffic selfie, the Starbucks selfie and of course the “…but first #seflie” posts, so here are a few tips on how to take a sexy selfie … but first… #sexyselfie:

 

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Let’s start by defining “sexy”, shall we?  According to Webster this, adjective is defined as “sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality.” So think about it – your selfie needs to be enticing, mysterious, and interesting. After talking to a few men, all with different ideas of the sexy women, their common answer was CONFIDENCE!

 

Sexy is a confident women! Plan and simple – if you’re going to take a selfie, own that shit! Put your hand up on your hip (when I dip, you dip, we dip), show off those legs, or pop out that booty!  Girl, take pride in your sexy parts.  Now, by taking pride, don’t reveal all your goodies!  Sometimes more is less.  Meaning, show off dat ass, but don’t bend so far over your vajaja is hanging out.  That is not sexy, that is soft porn, and you’ll probably get the boot from IG!

 

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#SexySelfie FAIL

Next, check your surroundings PLEASE!  Don’t end up as a #selfiefail! You will be forced to delete your account and open a new one to start over!  Put the toilet seats down and get your yesterday panties off the floor.  Moms, you’re sexy too, just make sure your kids are not photobombing!  On and Stuck in traffic seflies – please make sure you are ACTUALLY stuck in traffic; if not your Ray-Ban reflection will snitch!

 

Lastly, no more duck lips.  After the age of 14, duck lips are NOT cute and on the opposite side of the sexy scale radar.  Now, if you are a make-up artist and are showing off your latest lip gloss, ok, there are sexy lip selfies; however, the duck face fad is over!  Like… that snuggie you bought a few years back and ashamed to pull it out when guests are over.  Store the duck lips with the snuggie!

 

Now… go own that selfie girl!

 

 

 

Congratulations to the Fling.com #Fling500 Photo Contest Winners!

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Congratulations to the winners of the Fling500 Hottest Photo contest which ended on September 30 2014! All entries were super sexy and these were the Hottest Female, Hottest Male, and Hottest Couple determined by your votes! Each winning entry will recieve $500.00 . Keep a look out for the upcoming October Photo Contest.

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Its awesome to see members express their love of Fling! Thank you Kayla we love you too!! Hot Hot Hot!

5 Things That Happen In Movie Sex Scenes That Don’t Happen In Real Life

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It’s plain and simple, like Mitch in City Slickers said, “Women need a reason to have sex.  Men just need a place”.  We all watch movies and we all have the “Awww I want that” thought, but wake up ladies! The day a sexy hot billionaire, eyeing you in a club, and then whisking you away in his private helicopter are about as likely to happen as seeing a unicorn fly and pee glitter!  Here are five things that happen in movie sex scenes that, unfortunately, just don’t happen in real life:

1)       You wake up with your make up still looking flawless – sike!  You know we all wake up after a night of dancing with mascara and eyeliner under the eyes, our breath smelling like tequila shots, and uh…  chances are “that guy” just might not be as good looking as he was with your drunk eyes in dark club.

2)       It gets so intense that he rips your clothes off – false!  I’m sorry, but if a man rips my favorite top or pencil skirt I’d be sending him an invoice the morning after!  Don’t rip my clothes! Unless of course, you’re Mr. Grey!

3)       The sheet is covering all the right places – yeah right!  You know, it’s just over his legs, but showing off his nice firm butt, and covers your nipples just slightly to give him a tease?  You know right??  No.  The sheet is always in the wrong place. It’s wedged between your legs where he should be or gets tangled when you’re trying to change positions and your foot gets stuck – yeah, that’s the sheet I know.

4)       The romantic caressing and cuddling after awesome sex – haha!  If he doesn’t cum and pass out or go off and start playing Call of Duty you’ve got a charmer lady!  No man “just cuddles” any more… and ladies, we’re guilty too, of just rolling over and tweeting about “this guy” before we even put our panties back on.  #bringbackcuddling

5)       Awesome first thing in the morning sex with the sun beaming through the shades – huh? This does not happen, especially if you have kids!  First thing in the morning are all you girl. Getting the kids ready for school, packing lunches, or taking 45 minutes to blow dry your hair before work.  Or, if you’re like me – part of the 5amclub you’re already in the gym doing squats before he wakes up. Nope – ain’t nobody got time for that!