How To End Your Summer Fling

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end your summer flingSummer is often the season of romance; spending afternoons raging at festivals or strolling on the beach together.  As fall approaches and the leaves start changing, however, it could be time for your summer fling to come to an end. If you can do this compassionately, so that nobody feels devastated, that is best. Here are some tips on how to end your summer fling.

 

Let It Drift Away

Is this a summer fling that neither of you ever took very seriously? If so, then one way to break up is to let you both just drift away from the relationship when the summer ends. Sometimes this is easier and more compassionate for the other person than trying to explain to them why they just aren’t the right person for you.

If you are going to take this approach, first stop initiating contact between you. Your activities as a couple will dwindle, and eventually you can stop responding to their text messages and e-mails, or take a long time to do so. If they ask for some explanation, you can come up with a reason that does not make it personal. Just say something like you’re focusing on different goals now that the summer is over, and the time isn’t right for a relationship.

 

Plan Your Breakup Speech

If your summer romance was more serious than that, you will need to have a breakup speech. Imagine that you are going for an important client meeting or job interview. Of course, you would plan out in advance the main points that you want to cover, and rehearse what you want to say before you get there. Take the same approach to breaking up with your summer fling.

Think about whether you want to end things completely, or if you want to make it a temporary breakup, or even just transition to a friendship. You might regret it if you sever all ties completely, so plan what you would like. Also, think about the reasons you want to cite. Are you heading different directions in the fall? Have there been problems in the relationship? Decide on the major points you want to make.

 

Break Up In Person

It seems like it is easier on your end if you break up with a person by phone call, text message, or e-mail, but it shows more respect for them if you make the effort to have the breakup conversation in person. During the discussion, go over the points you planned out. Be honest about your reasons for breaking up, but try not to be cruel. Don’t blame the other person or make it all their fault. Ideally you can still be friendly with them afterwards.

Going On After The Breakup

Once your relationship is over, your life will go back to what it was like before. Be courteous and respectful towards your new ex. Don’t gossip about them or say bad things about them to others, and don’t talk too much about the breakup or why you did it. Remember that you may still have contact with them in the future, so be nice.

 

If They Keep Calling Stop Answering

Sometimes one fling will be more attached to the other and more inclined to keep the romances past its prime. Don’t fuel the fire or hopes by responding. If they aren’t picking up on the clue that its over stop paying attention to their texts and don’t pick up calls. It just prolongs the inevitable and taints the memory.

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Best Places To Meet Singles in Toronto

If you’re single and looking for love in Toronto, you are probably wondering where to find all the eligible singles in the city. It’s not always easy to meet people, and some singles in the city have started to feel like it’s a lost cause. Fear not, because we’ve compiled a list of some of the best places to meet single people in Toronto.


The Drake Hotel

Drake Hotel TorontoAmong the shops and galleries of Queen Street, this classic hotel seems to attract good-looking singles from all over the Toronto area. The top-notch food features farm-to-table eating, and the cocktails are both pricey and delicious. Somehow the combination manages to bring in a wide range of potential partners, so check out The Drake Hotel.

 

Toronto Transit

toronto ttc trainYou may not think of your commute as a place to meet people, but plenty of singles have met a match this way. You tend to see some of the same people on your commute every day, and sooner or later, this can lead to striking up a conversation. So don’t keep your nose buried in a book every day. This is a good opportunity, so look around and start noticing who else is there.

 

 

The Victory CafeVictory Cafe Toronto

Winter or summer, you can find some serious singles action happening at the Victory Cafe. During the summer, the outdoor patio is the place to be. In wintertime, the cozy bar inside is where people mingle. You’ll find plenty of singles hanging around by the fire, or in the little snug room, and firelight has been known to spark some romances. Visit their website for more info.

Grocery stores

It may sound like a cliché or an urban myth, but it really is possible to meet eligible singles at the grocery store. If you shop in the stores around Little Italy, Liberty Village, or the Yonge-Eglinton Centre, you’re sure to find a bunch of singles with their baskets, foraging for dinner options. Try striking up a conversation about organic green beans or the best frozen entrees.

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The Cameron House

This is a gathering place for writers, musicians, and other artistic types. During the evening, the live music attracts the after-work crowd, who flock here to enjoy a pint and some entertainment. It’s a mixed scene with a lot of possibilities, so spend some time watching the crowd too, not just the show on stage. Check out who they have booked online, so you know what kind of atmosphere to expect.

 

 

The Bier Markt

Bier Markt TorontoThe motto here is “Beer is beautiful,” and you’ll find a range of beers to pair with the European brasserie style cuisine. You’ll also find a lot of singles who come here both for the beer and the crowd. On weeknights about 5pm, the Esplanade location has a sizable singles crowd. On a Saturday night, try the King West location for meeting other singles. Visit their website for other locations.

 

Missed Connections

This Craigslist section has a quirky following, but it really does work for some people. Scan the lists, and see if there’s somebody looking for you, or put up your own post for the lovely lady you see on your way home every day. If you’re a patient romantic, just make checking the listings here part of your normal routine, and who knows what could turn up?

5 Ways To Enhance Your Penis

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No matter how large (or small) your penis is, if you’re like most men, chances are you’ve thought about ways to make it look bigger. Well, before countless pills flooded the market promising to add inches to your manhood, there were a few more “traditional” ways you could try and some length to your member.

 

Trim Your Man Bush

This is definitely the easiest method of all but that’s because you’re dealing with appearances instead of actual growth. If you have a huge man bush, doing some manscaping will surely make johnson seem a few inches longer.

 

Jelqing

This is a massage technique that focuses on the shaft. using lubrication, you form a circular grip with your thumb and pointer finger at the base of your penis. You then proceed to stretch your semi-erect penis upward until you reach the base of the head. Then, repeat… a couple of hundred times a day.

 

Penis Pumps

Experts agree that penis pumps do increase blood flow to the penis; making it easier to get an erection. However, it doesn’t necessarily make it permanently bigger.

 

Hanging Weights

This is one of the oldest penis enlargement techniques, and some people swear by it. A strap or rope is attached to one end of the penis and a weight hangs on the other end. The weight can be between 1/16 and ¼ pound. However, even studies that show it works agree that it usually reduces girth.

 

The Andropenis

We’ve saved the most sophisticated method for last. We’re sure the Andropenis got its name because it makes your penis look like one of R2-D2’s legs. Nevertheless, a number of sources claim that the device actually works, even though it does take extended use and may only increase your penis size by centimeters.

9 Best Places to Have Casual Sex

 

Everyone’s sex life can use a new venue or two. Dodge bedroom bore by experimenting with fooling around in some new-fangled places. Getting it on out of the bedroom will make for some memories neither of you are likely to forget. Here are the 9 best places to have casual sex !

 

1. Crash a Convention

Throw convention to the wind by sneaking into a hotel convention, duck behind an empty booth, and get it on while wearing nothing but someone else’s name badge.

 

2. A Friend’s House

If you’ve got the spare key to a buddies house, wait until you’re sure no one will be home and surprise your mate with an elaborate rouse. Say your friend needed help with something, get your partner inside and then reveal the real motives for your mischief.

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3. The Laundry Room

Lots of women have laundry room fantasies — perhaps it’s the slow, rocking vibration of a running washer. Whatever the reason, get a load in and, well, you get the pun.

 

4. The Stairwell

Find a tall building and wait until the dead of night to get a workout that will get your Stairmaster jealous. Pick an upper floor to further avoid being interrupted.

 

 

5. In a Library

Libraries are stuffy and quiet — the perfect place to rebel. Find the floor with the least traffic, and get ready for some wordy rug burn. Having to stay completely quiet will be exhilarating for you both. Add extra spice with a naughty schoolgirl look.

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6. Camping

The seclusion of the great outdoors can be a great spot for getting back to nature. Follow the lead of the birds and the bees and get thrown up against a tree or three. Doing it right out in the open next to a roaring fire will be a naturally passionate experience.

 

7. The Kitchen

Sex in the kitchen is the most exciting way to clear the dishes. If you have a sturdy dinette set make sure to consider creative use of the chairs.

 

8. The Balcony

Even if you live just a few floors up, the danger of the height will be thrilling. If you don’t have your own balcony, a fire escape of an office building could do nicely.

 

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9. In a Car

Choose a relatively busy parking lot in the middle of the day to keep it spicy. Don’t let a lack of tinted windows stop you. Wait till you’ve picked up the dry cleaning, throw up your dash board sun protector, and hang a garment in front of each of the side windows. The only evidence to a passerby will be the glass you’re undoubtedly steaming up.

4 Foods To Improve Your SexLife

A good diet can not only improve your health, but it can have a positive effect on your sex life as well. That’s why we’ve come up with a short list of foods to improve your sex life .

Seafood

You’ve heard that oysters are an aphrodisiac, but did you know that other seafood like lobster and shrimp are also on the list? They’re a great source of zinc, copper and protein which boasts your sex drive.

Dark Chocolate

They say that phenylethylamine is an endorphin released in the brain when you’re falling in love. They say the same thing about dark chocolate. “They” say alot.

Nuts

Peanuts have a necessary amino acid that helps the brain to circulate neurotransmitters. ‘nuff said.

Hot Peppers

Eating peppers increases your blood flow and speeds up your metabolism. It can all lead to harder erections for men and stronger orgasms for women.