How to Increase Your Libido in Winter

How to Increase Your Libido in Winter

Seize the moment.

DURING winter the human body is biologically programmed to decrease in sex drive and hibernate. Not only do we like to sleep more, but a lot of us increase our carbohydrate intake thus causing us to be a lot more lethargic. It is possible to increase your energy and libido during winter. Three key ways to increase your libido during winter is by exercising, eating right and adding natural aphrodisiac supplements to your everyday routine.

1. Exercise

Some of you may find this hard during cold winter days, but if you want to increase your libido (or improve your health in general) do some work out. Regular exercise whether it’s a trip to the gym, joining a dance class or just walking the dog increases feel-good hormones called endorphins and can reduce your stress levels as well as increase your stamina, body image and mood, all drivers of a healthy libido.  [Read more…]

Fling Answers- I Hate Morning Sex

From Not A Morning Person,

Due to me and my husband having completely different work schedules I had to compromise to having sex in the morning right before he goes to work. I have never been a morning person nor will I ever be, but I did this to try to make our sex life work. I haven’t been enjoying the sex and more than half of the time I am not even completely awake. I am basically still sleeping or I am too tired to participate. I can’t believe that he isn’t realizing that I am unhappy with our sex life. I need your help. What do I do?

Hey Not A Morning Person,

The problem I see here is that one person in the relationship is sacrificing when it comes to the sex department and that isn’t fair at all. You both need to be compromising in some way and also come to an agreement to satisfy you both. Sex shouldn’t be a planned event in the first place. It should happen when both parties involved are in the mood and willing to have some fun. You also need to voice your unhappiness about your sex life to your husband. As us women do feel and assume that our husbands or boyfriends should automatically know when something is wrong is not always true. You should vocalize your reasons to why you are not enjoying morning sex and state that once in awhile it will be nice to have sex when you are more conscious of the activity. Good luck!

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Fling Answers- I’m A Cheating Wife

From Cheating Wife,

I have been married for about 13 years now and I have recently begun cheating on my husband. I still very much so love my husband and I know that he loves me, but the problem lays in the bedroom. We probably have sex maybe once a month or once every two months. I have an extremely high sex drive and he has a very low sex drive. I didn’t just decide one day to cheat. I have been working on our sex life for the last 7 years and I had enough of the lack of intimacy. I joined this site to meet married men who don’t want nor need a committed relationship; and they just want to have fun and that is it. I have met several men already and have only slept with four of them. It was nice to feel attractive once again, not like the time I dressed up in sexy lingerie for my husband before he came home from work. Just for him to tell me that he wasn’t in the mood. I felt humiliated and completely rejected. It definitely wasn’t a good feeling.

Out of the four men that I had been intimate with; only one I decided to see on a regular basis. We would meet up once a month to have lunch and then book a hotel room for the afternoon. I was in complete bliss with the sex and he could stay hard for hours. The sex was nothing in comparison to the sex I had with my husband. The meets were always fun and there was never a dull moment. We didn’t have to talk about kids, bills, cleaning the house, etc.

At first I use to feel guilty, but the more times I done it the less I felt guilty. My husband doesn’t know that I am cheating as he is at work during the times I am out. The kids are also at school as well. I am currently still seeing the man and I don’t want to stop, but I don’t want to hurt my husband and the kids with my actions. I need advice and help!

Hey Cheating Wife,

This is a common problem with many couples who are married and have lost the sex drive. I do not condone cheating whatsoever and it doesn’t matter what the case might be. If you are unhappy in any aspect of your relationship then you need to discuss it with your husband. You said that you tried to make it work for the last 7 years by dressing sexy. But have you tried talking and explaining to your husband about his lack of intimacy is making you feel less of a woman? Communication is extremely important in relationships.

Your husband is very much so in the wrong due to him not taking your feelings into consideration when he decides to only make love with you once a month. I am sure he has to know that his actions are not correct. He must see that it is hurting you as well. Both of you need to think about how your actions will affect one another.

The secret life you are living can potential destroy your family and break you all apart. I would suggest ending the affair and go to marriage counseling to try to fix the intimate issues. If that doesn’t work then the best thing is for you both to mutually break up and go your separate ways. The only other suggestion I can give you is Tips On How To Make An Open Marriage Work. Good luck!

Top 5 Rules For Having Sex At Work

People are always looking for ways to spice up their sex life. One of the top sexual experimentations is experiencing having sex at work. There is just something extremely exciting about the thought of having sex at work. The risk and thrill of getting caught by having someone walk into your office or the copy room while you are getting pounded in or having your below area sucked on. Having sex at work is fun, but if you get caught you can very well lose your job. That is a big no, no; especially in this economy. So, if you decide this is something you want to do proceed with extreme caution and follow these Top 5 Rules For Having Sex At Work:

1. Person You Will Be Having Sex With: This person should be someone that you trust will be able to keep the lid shut about the two of you bumping monkeys at work. You definitely want a person who doesn’t have a big mouth so that he will not let your entire office and the one next to you know that you two did the deed in the copy room.

2. It’s Just Sex: Before you and your co-worker get down and dirty at work make sure to have a talk about what this sex adventure is really about. It’s just sex and you don’t want to develop a relationship with this person. If you both can be sex buddies every so often that is totally fine. Remember, no feelings should be developed.

3. Me Attracted, Say What? You and your co-worker should NEVER show attraction towards one another during work. You do not want to draw any attention towards you both. No one should know that you two have sex eyes for one another.

4. Don’t Tell Anyone: Do not let your co-worker friend in the office or cubicle next to you that you are planning to have sex with Jeff from legal. You don’t want to run the risk of your little planned sex venture to be exposed by others before it can even happen. You can’t trust anyone with this information at work.

5. Deny, Deny, Deny. Did I mention Deny? If by some chance your sex venture has been discovered, but there is no proof that the event has happened. Then Deny! When I say proof I mean there is not witnesses, cameras, emails (between you and your co-worker) then you are in the clear.

If you do decide to go and have some fun at work remember these rules and be cautious! Do you have a crush on Facebook? Check out these 5 Steps To Get Your Facebook Crush To Notice You.