Sometimes you may be feeling a little experimental or hornier, or read or heard a story from a friend that tried some real risque, over the top thing in bed that might have your wheels turning. The problem is that you’re not sure how your guy will feel about it. Well, much to your relieve there are ways “to get around the get around,” but you have to be bold enough to go ahead with your new freaky, bedroom experiment and just be more observant than usual. You want to look at your guy from time to time and be one with all his movements and sounds. You don’t have to be a psychic to know whether your guy is enjoying whatever new move you’re trying, just use your gut feeling and if you know this guy well enough, you should be able to tell.
Usually, guys won’t tell you if they don’t particularly like something. They’re much too happy that they’re getting laid to focus on it. Unless you bite a nipple off or do something incredibly radical as such. If you ask him, he’ll probably say, it was “fine” because he doesn’t want to discourage your frisky new attitude.
Here are some tips on how to get around to doing what you’ve been wanting to do and insuring that he’s enjoying it:
- - Don’t Rush Into Things.
Being bold doesn’t mean jumping the gun. Ease into this new risque bedroom move you’ve never done with passionate kissing. Kissing always turns on the heat. Kiss his mouth, his ears, his chest. Go wild with kissing. If he goes along with your wild, new passionate kissing, certainly it’s a good sign. Guys really do love to kiss and being kissed. Cover his body in kisses, licks and subtle nibbles.
- - Pay Attention to His Reactions.
Let’s pretend the new risque thing you want to do is tie up your guy with your pantyhose and have your way with him. Well, naturally you’ll most likely be on top. If not maybe it’s best that you position yourself there so you can have a good view of his facial expression when you whip out your pantyhose and begin to tie him up. If he becomes tense or grunts, he’s not really going for it. If he giggles and looks amused- go for it!
- - Learn From What Your Partner Does.
Example, if your guy often strokes your back or your chest/breasts, most likely these are the areas where he likes to be touched as well. This is another way of getting him in the mood for just about anything along with the wild kissing. Touching and kissing may sound innocent but can lead to the naughtiest of acts.
- - Sometimes You Have to Risk It.
If you really want to try out something new, sexy and totally out of character with your guy, you’re going to have to risk it and go for it. The fact that you feel somewhat unsure is not good. You should be sure of yourself and the things you want to do. Besides, you’re both adults and have had sex before, what’s the harm in trying out something new? It’s not like you’re going to start shooting up heroin. Risk it, be confident and just do it, if not you will never know and you’ll be left to wonder for the duration of your relationship. Hopefully, is one of: “for all eternity.”
Not sure yet if to do or not to do? Then you must ask. Especially, if you’ve been with this person for awhile it really shouldn’t be so hard. It’s only hard when the relationship is particularly new. If you’ve been with your guy for quite sometime and feel uncomfortable trying new things but on top of that, you also feel like you can’t talk about it, then you have bigger issue to worry about. Sometimes asking and talking about new things becomes the biggest turn on and it brings you closer. This is especially true if you’ve felt like you’ve been becoming distant.
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Trying something new with your guy will certainly bring you guys back together, connecting and relating in several different ways. Take the risk, or ask. Always be observant and just go for it! Tune in to Fling Blog for more tips on dating, sex and much more!
