5 Tricks to Get Her in the Mood Without Even Touching

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get her in the moodHopefully you’re at the point with a girl where you’re not simply praying she goes out on a second date with you. Your work is still not done, however. Keeping a girl in the mood is a battle as constant as regularly flossing. It’s no chore, however. The more creative you are, the more of a challenge it will be — and the more interesting it will be.

Start Flirting Early

There’s nothing worse than a last minute attempt to jump into a girl’s pants at the end of a date. Anyone worth doing is worth doing right, so put in the time and start early. Flirt with her via text while she’s at work. Keep up the momentum with subtle contact throughout the night, such as slipping your hand into her back pocket as you walk along. Give her a light squeeze and a smile every so often to remind her you want her.

 

Location, Location, Location

Pimping out your atmosphere is one of the most effective ways to turn her on. It doesn’t have to be as cliché as incense and rose petals on the bedspread, but don’t underestimate the power of a little ‘Fling’ Shui. Try relaxing the setting with something a little more original, such as running through the sexiest selections in your record collection together. Don’t forget the subdued lighting: a soft pink glow hides many a flaw…and inhibition.

Boost Her Self-Confidence

Don’t talk about other girls you think are hot all night, just keep the focus on her, and how much you want her in less than obvious ways. Go gaga over how cute her toes are, or long her neck is. Compliment her intelligence and wit, with subtlety: “You know I don’t think I know one single person who would ‘get’ that joke…”  She will gain self-confidence and admire you in return, which will go a long way later when you’re taking her clothes off.

Dominance

Women generally want a man to take control — just don’t take it too far. You don’t want to get rape-y or forceful, just use your natural advantages to dominate her. When the date is winding down, say as a matter of fact that she’s staying at your place tonight. When she gets all coy and protests, stop her and maintain eye contact until she gives in.

Liquor

When all else fails, get her buzzed. (Note that this says buzzed and not wasted.) No one wants to wake up with regret in the morning — wondering what the hell you’ve done is a major turn off.

 

5 Reasons to Date an Older Woman

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date an older womanDating an older woman can be daunting for a first-timer. As open-minded as you think you are, concerns about your friend’s and family’s opinions, or glances from people in public, and trepidation over why she’s still single will naturally arise. However, if you find the right older woman, these fears, and others, should disappear once you realize the benefits of her life experience.

 Reasons To Date An Older Woman

1. Bedroom Expertise
Remember your first time? A lot of awkward fumbling that was more than likely even embarrassing? Well the funny thing about experience is, the more you have of it, the better you are at something. Same goes for sex. Older women aren’t shy, they know how to be discreet, they know what they want and, chances are, they know a lot more about what youwant. Never underestimate the power of the ‘been there, hit that.’

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2. Experience Outside the Bedroom
Life isn’t all about sex. The right older woman has traveled, dined, patronized the arts, and cultivated her mind more than her younger counterparts. You can learn from her wealth of knowledge. She will show you a whole new world of interests, hobbies, book smarts and appreciation for the finer things, which you never knew existed.

3. Been There, Played That
By dating an older woman there’s a better chance you won’t have to play the tiring, boring and maddening games which girls your own age play. She won’t stalk your ex on Facebook, she’s mature enough not to flirt shamelessly with your best friend just to enrage you, and she won’t tell you she’s pregnant when she isn’t.

4. Kids Aren’t an Issue
If MILFs are your thing, dating an older Mom will ensure that you get more of her time and energy. If the idea of a woman with kids is a huge turnoff, an older woman who doesn’t have children likely won’t be having any.

5. Freedom

An older woman will have a life outside of you. Younger girls are needy and clingy. An older, single woman has had to forge for herself at some point, which means she’s built her own life and won’t need your constant attention to keep her happy. This leaves you open to live your own life. You’ll be able to go places alone, and have experiences that just wouldn’t have been the same with a whiny girlfriend on your arm.

9 Best Places to Have Casual Sex

 

Everyone’s sex life can use a new venue or two. Dodge bedroom bore by experimenting with fooling around in some new-fangled places. Getting it on out of the bedroom will make for some memories neither of you are likely to forget. Here are the 9 best places to have casual sex !

 

1. Crash a Convention

Throw convention to the wind by sneaking into a hotel convention, duck behind an empty booth, and get it on while wearing nothing but someone else’s name badge.

 

2. A Friend’s House

If you’ve got the spare key to a buddies house, wait until you’re sure no one will be home and surprise your mate with an elaborate rouse. Say your friend needed help with something, get your partner inside and then reveal the real motives for your mischief.

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3. The Laundry Room

Lots of women have laundry room fantasies — perhaps it’s the slow, rocking vibration of a running washer. Whatever the reason, get a load in and, well, you get the pun.

 

4. The Stairwell

Find a tall building and wait until the dead of night to get a workout that will get your Stairmaster jealous. Pick an upper floor to further avoid being interrupted.

 

 

5. In a Library

Libraries are stuffy and quiet — the perfect place to rebel. Find the floor with the least traffic, and get ready for some wordy rug burn. Having to stay completely quiet will be exhilarating for you both. Add extra spice with a naughty schoolgirl look.

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6. Camping

The seclusion of the great outdoors can be a great spot for getting back to nature. Follow the lead of the birds and the bees and get thrown up against a tree or three. Doing it right out in the open next to a roaring fire will be a naturally passionate experience.

 

7. The Kitchen

Sex in the kitchen is the most exciting way to clear the dishes. If you have a sturdy dinette set make sure to consider creative use of the chairs.

 

8. The Balcony

Even if you live just a few floors up, the danger of the height will be thrilling. If you don’t have your own balcony, a fire escape of an office building could do nicely.

 

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9. In a Car

Choose a relatively busy parking lot in the middle of the day to keep it spicy. Don’t let a lack of tinted windows stop you. Wait till you’ve picked up the dry cleaning, throw up your dash board sun protector, and hang a garment in front of each of the side windows. The only evidence to a passerby will be the glass you’re undoubtedly steaming up.

5 Things He Wants To Hear In Bed

Some guys like talkers, some really, really don’t. If you’ve gotten away with a few random statements here and there, you likely have a man on your hands who wants to hear more. You’re in luck! Successfully talking during sex can be one of the most intimate, fun, and memorable experiences you can have. Try new things, and add a couple staple sex slogans, and you’re sure to keep him smiling.

 

What To Do

A guy might have mad chops in the bedroom, but that doesn’t mean he can’t use a pointer or three here and there. Every woman is different, and he wants you to be different, so tell him all of the out-of-the-ordinary things you want him to do, and see where it gets the two of you.

 

“Harder”

It might happen early in the sexual encounter or later, but it’s always hot to let him get a little rough with you. Tell him you want it harder, but make sure you make eye contact the whole time: it will be hotter for you both, and your facial expressions will be cues to pull back or go further still.

 

You’re Climaxing

Telling a guy you’re about have an orgasm is one of the hottest thing you can say during sex. Preface it with “Don’t stop.” Never fake it, however. Once you go down the When-Harry-Met-Sally café scene road, he’ll never try harder to actually get you there, and you’ll be relegated to an unsatisfying sex life for the duration of your relationship. Worse yet, if he finds out you faked it, you’ll lose his trust.

 

How Good He Feels

He wants to hear how big he is, how well he fills you up, how good he does you and how much you want to feel him cum. The list goes on, but it will be more exciting if you wing it. Be genuine, and try to avoid clichés.

 

A Religious Experience

Whether you’re yelling out “OH GOD!” or “OH Allah!” or ‘OH logic, evidence, and physical matter in a biological configuration!” never underestimate the satisfaction he will derive from giving you an orgasm so powerful that you’re calling out to the fates (or lack thereof).

5 Things She Wants You To Do In Bed

You might think you’re bringing your A-game to bed, but chances are, there’s room for improvement. Getting there might be most of the work, but if you ever want to get there again, consider a few desires most women have which cannot be ignored. She might not tell you, but there are things you need to get good at. Really good at.

Get Rough

One of the most popular secret desires women have is a little roughhousing. The nature of the male-female dynamic is that a women was built to be dominated, however dangerous that might seem at first. Just don’t go too far, and you’ll do just fine. Pull her hair a little, put your hands gently around her throat, or push her face into a pillow once in a while to see how far you can go.

Bondage & Control

Tying her up and blindfolding a person can be risky, but if done right, a little light bondage can be very rewarding. She might instantly hate it and tell you to stop. If that’s the case, stop immediately until you’ve gained a little more of her trust. If you find yourself getting a green light, just make sure you’re not cutting off any circulation. She either wants you to take control or give her control. Try them both until you figure out which works best.

Talk Dirty & Make Some Noise

Never underestimate the power of telling a woman the filthy things you want to do to her. She will feel wanted and you’ll end up enjoying it as much as she does. Start with more benign statements and get slowly dirtier to figure out where her boundaries are. If you generally don’t make noise when you climax, start grunting a little and see how excited she gets.

Give Oral

You knew it was coming — pun intended. If you’re not giving her oral at least a little each time you get into it, you’re getting lazy. If she says she doesn’t want it, or doesn’t like it, it’s possible you’re just not very good at it. Tell her you want to practice, and when you do, try every conceivable direction and style you can imagine until you get it right.

Cuddle

You might be shuddering right now, but the vast majority of women want to be held after. Like giving oral, there isn’t really any way around this, so stop trying. In fact, not holding her after is a major deal-breaker for a lot of women, so unless you’re hoping not to hear from her again, learn to love the post-coital cuddle.