4 Principles To Make Any Woman Obsessed With You

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by Scotty The Oz ( Reposted from http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip172.htm)

I always found it interesting, as well as frustrating, that I have so much trouble getting the women I want, but have no trouble driving the women I don’t want absolutely crazy over me. I’m sure this same thing has baffled many of you.

I wanted to figure out why these women, whom I had no interest in, were so obsessed with me, so I then could try and apply these same principles to women that I did want. Therefore, I analyzed the past five women who were “obsessed” with me, and what I did to generate these feelings in them.

1) I rejected them.

I showed that I wasn’t interested. This showed a lot of CONFIDENCE. It made it seem like I had tons of girls to select from, and could pick and choose who I wanted to date. It also showed that I wasn’t desperate or needy for a woman.

2) I was a jerk.

I didn’t call back, ignored them, hit on other women right in front of them, etc. This showed that I was SECURE and didn’t need them. I could do and say whatever I wanted around them. I didn’t care if they got angry and walked away.

3) I occasionally gave them hope.

I’d call back, flirt or kiss them on the cheek (usually when I was drunk). Immediately after (when was sober), I returned to being a jerk. This made it seem like I was “weakening” a little and was just out of their reach. They became obsessed with “grabbing” me once and for all.

4) I remained uninterested.

This drove them crazy. They said to themselves, “Why doesn’t he want me? He must be a really CONFIDENT and INDEPENDENT guy if he’s turning down dates. He must have girls all over him. He must really be SPECIAL. I have to have him!!!”

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Best Ways To Approach a Girl

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approachIf a girl seems unapproachable, it’s probably because she’s worth the trepidation: the momentary smile, the way she absentmindedly curls her hair around one finger while she chats with friends, the shape of her hips in those jeans. No eye-roll worthy pick-up line is going to suffice — you need to bring a pistol to this knife fight.

 

Be Napolean Bone-aparte

Confidence is key. You’ve got a dog in this race, and by dog we mean, your penis. But don’t let the wrong head craft your war plan. Tread lightly, because even if this isn’t your dream girl, treating the situation like it’s no ordinary come-on will mean success will surely be yours.

 

Leave the Cheese at La Fromagerie

And know what the hell a fromagerie is. It might sound crazy, but you need to have a classy conversation with a girl before you ever ask for her number. Knowing a thing or two about something other than football and basketball is the best way to get her interested. Pull out your smart phone and check what has happened in foreign policy that day, and come up with an intelligent and thought-provoking foray into a conversation. Smart guys are sexy, because they’re usually successful, but don’t sound too nerdy, or she might feel like she showed up to class without studying for the test. If you can sit down next to her, pull out your phone and act like you’re reading the news for the first time, and look over to her as though you just had to get her opinion on what happened.

 

Don’t Be a Guy Friend

The inherent danger in the non-sexual convo approach is that you might actually get along. You might unwittingly stumble into Just-a-friend-ville — and that’s no where you want to be. Make sure she knows you desire her: Every woman is flattered by subtle clues you want her. Make constant intense eye contact (win the staring contest!) and remember details about her life to bring up later in the conversation.

 

Be Sexy, Not Overzealous

In between chapters of conversation, inject delicate flirtations such as handing her a drink but holding it a few seconds too long. How you look at her should (and will) tell her everything about what you want, and who you are. Just don’t be creepy, or you’ve just blown your chances. Subtlety is key, after all, you just met, and she has a lot more to lose than you.

 

Set a Deadline on Your Next Chapter

If she’s worth all of this trouble, then you’re likely not the first suitor she’s encountered, and you’re certainly not the last — or even the best. Make sure you don’t end up a crumpled business card in the bottom of her purse by setting the stage for the next meeting. If you talked about wine, tell her you were thinking about going to a local winery or tasting and ask her along. If she mentioned she hates golf tell her you feel you both should give the entire sport a chance at the putting range. Make sure you’re not just asking her out on ‘to dinner,’ and she’s way more likely to be intrigued.

 

Is it a Relationship or Summer Fling?

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Summer is the season for pool parties, barbecues, and trips to the beach. For many single people, it is also an opportunity to have a summer fling. All that outdoor activity and summer fun can get people thinking of romance. Sometimes you meet somebody while you’re both on vacation, and you know in advance that when fall comes, you’ll be heading off to different cities.

Whether you’ll be staying in the same place or not at the end of the summer, the question that may be running through your mind is, “Is this just a summer fling, or could it lead to something more serious?” Here are some clues to look for. No single item is an indicator of a long-term relationship, but these are all positive signs.

1. You really like each other

Aside from the lust involved in a new relationship, do you truly enjoy spending time with each other? Do you truly like each other? It’s actually pretty easy to have a fling with somebody who is fun for awhile, knowing that you don’t really like them enough to make it long term. Think about how you feel, and see what you can tell about how they feel, too. If you both really like each other as people, and enjoy your time together, that’s a good start.

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2. You’re comfortable together

You know how some people always put you a little bit on edge, while other people make you instantly feel relaxed? While there’s a thrill to a fling with somebody in the first category, it doesn’t make for a long term relationship. Can you be yourself, or do you always feel like you’re trying to be something you’re not? For your fling to develop into more, you need to feel easy and comfortable around each other.

3. You both act “lovingly”

Does he do the little things that show he cares, like bringing your favorite wine for a romantic picnic? How about on your side? Did you remember his favorite dessert, and make it for him one evening? They say that actions speak louder than words, and that can be very true here. If you are both taking those steps that show you care about the other person, that is a good sign.

4. You have a rare closeness

This is hard to describe, but once you experience it, you know the feeling. When you’re together, you feel a certain rapport. It’s like a special kind of intimacy, and a shared understanding. Sometimes couples feel this very soon after they meet. For other people, it takes some time to develop. However it happens, this closeness can be a sign that you have something special.

Do you think about the future? When you allow yourself to daydream, do you see the two of you together sometime after summer ends? Has either of you ever mentioned getting together after August, like going to a concert together in November, or what you’re doing for Christmas? Even a casual mention can be a sign that there may be more to your romance than a summer fling.

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5 Ways To Help Your Woman Climax

For guys, it’s easy to take orgasms for granted. After all, the only thing needed is a free hand and a few minutes. But for some girls, it’s not that simple. That’s why we’ve come up with a short list of ways that you can help your girl achieve the ever elusive climax.

Use Foreplay

Many women can achieve an orgasm on their own by master bating so why not help them out? She’ll be happy you’ll be able to observe her technique.

Perform Oral

Some women can’t have an orgasm through oral stimulation alone, but it can’t hurt to try.

Try Different Positions

Many women can’t achieve an orgasm unless they’re in a certain position, which, of course, tends to be their favorite. Make it your mission to find that position.

 

Switch Speeds & Angles

Whether it’s in a car or in the bedroom, guys usually like to go one speed – fast. Switch up your speed as well as the angle of your approach and she’ll find it to be a much better ride.

 

Use Toys

Sex toys don’t have to be a last resort. They can be fun anytime but what better excuse do you need to try them out than to help your girl have a faster, stronger orgasm?

5 Things Everyone Should Know About The Clit

Deep down inside, every man wants to be considered a “pussy expert”. However, there are very few men out there that can actually hold that title. But if you aspire to become a professional on all things vagina related, this list is a great place to start.

 

 

 

 

Girls Can Get a “Stiffy”

Did you know that the Labia Minora contains erectile tissue that stiffens when a woman gets sexually aroused?  Did you know women have a Labia Minora?

 

The “Hood” has the most nerve endings.

The outer part of the vagina, near the opening, has the most vaginal nerve endings which makes more sensitive than the rest of the vagina.

The location of the G-Spot

Scientists believe that the G-Spot is an extension of the clitoris. However, the exact location of the G-Spot can vary from woman to woman while some women may not have one at all.

 

Good bacteria?

Up to 15 different types of bacteria can be found in the average vagina. They keep away the bad bacteria that can cause infections.

 

The funnest exercise

The pubococcygeus muscle is the main muscle in the pubic region. Working it out can make it easier to climax and it can also give a woman better “grip” during sex.