4 Principles To Make Any Woman Obsessed With You

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by Scotty The Oz ( Reposted from http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip172.htm)

I always found it interesting, as well as frustrating, that I have so much trouble getting the women I want, but have no trouble driving the women I don’t want absolutely crazy over me. I’m sure this same thing has baffled many of you.

I wanted to figure out why these women, whom I had no interest in, were so obsessed with me, so I then could try and apply these same principles to women that I did want. Therefore, I analyzed the past five women who were “obsessed” with me, and what I did to generate these feelings in them.

1) I rejected them.

I showed that I wasn’t interested. This showed a lot of CONFIDENCE. It made it seem like I had tons of girls to select from, and could pick and choose who I wanted to date. It also showed that I wasn’t desperate or needy for a woman.

2) I was a jerk.

I didn’t call back, ignored them, hit on other women right in front of them, etc. This showed that I was SECURE and didn’t need them. I could do and say whatever I wanted around them. I didn’t care if they got angry and walked away.

3) I occasionally gave them hope.

I’d call back, flirt or kiss them on the cheek (usually when I was drunk). Immediately after (when was sober), I returned to being a jerk. This made it seem like I was “weakening” a little and was just out of their reach. They became obsessed with “grabbing” me once and for all.

4) I remained uninterested.

This drove them crazy. They said to themselves, “Why doesn’t he want me? He must be a really CONFIDENT and INDEPENDENT guy if he’s turning down dates. He must have girls all over him. He must really be SPECIAL. I have to have him!!!”

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How to Approach a Guy

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blowing a kissYou might think it’s a guy’s job to approach the girl. You might think it’s inappropriate to, or will appear desperate, for you to make the first move. Or you might just simply be terrified of rejection. But the truth is, when you approach a guy, he’ll be taken aback and you’ve instantly secured the upper hand. In encounters with the opposite sex, even that small advantage can make or break control of the outcome.

 

The Eyes Have It

Direct eye contact from across the room is the easiest way to let a guy know you’re interested. Do it repeatedly and you’ll soon find most of the work of The Approach is already done. If necessary, work on your look. Try the Stare-Bashfully Avert Your Eyes-Get Caught Staring Again model. Or the Half Smiling-Little-Hand-Wave rendition. Try out different repertoires in different situations, and see what works best.

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Fly Solo

Guys out on their own are a dime a dozen, but everyone knows hot girls travel in packs. If you’ve drifted away from your herd, you’re a stray cat on the prowl and need some petting. You’re on a hunt that’s all about you and no one else. Just be careful to appear independent, but not desperate.

 

Compliment Him

If you’re the type who throws caution to the wind, you can always go the complimentary route. If you are sartorially well-versed and spot a guy in, say, Armani, walk up and compliment him on it. Even if you’re wrong, if you can at least spot a nice suit, it will start a conversation. Just keep it going.

 

Ask for Advice or Help

It’s in a male’s nature to protect the females of their species, so take a lesson from Animal Planet. Come up with an elaborate rouse with your girlfriends and make sure they’re in on it. Walk up to him and ask him for his advice on a problem with your girlfriend — she’s having this issue with her boyfriend that only a man’s perspective can help solve. This has a tandem benefit: 1. It volunteers the information that you’re single: If you were in a relationship, you would have simply asked your boyfriend. 2. It makes him feel like he’s solving a problem for you, and you need him (and only him).

 

Go Through His Wingman

The method of approaching his best friend is the least straightforward but often the most effective. It’s also simple: Go up to his friend and ask him one question: “Don’t tell him I asked you, but does your friend have a girlfriend?” You know full well the first thing he’s going to do is tell his friend you’re interested in him. The bonus of this approach is, if it turns out he actually does have a girlfriend, it might turn out you get a shot at the wingman.

 

5 Tricks to Get Her in the Mood Without Even Touching

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get her in the moodHopefully you’re at the point with a girl where you’re not simply praying she goes out on a second date with you. Your work is still not done, however. Keeping a girl in the mood is a battle as constant as regularly flossing. It’s no chore, however. The more creative you are, the more of a challenge it will be — and the more interesting it will be.

Start Flirting Early

There’s nothing worse than a last minute attempt to jump into a girl’s pants at the end of a date. Anyone worth doing is worth doing right, so put in the time and start early. Flirt with her via text while she’s at work. Keep up the momentum with subtle contact throughout the night, such as slipping your hand into her back pocket as you walk along. Give her a light squeeze and a smile every so often to remind her you want her.

 

Location, Location, Location

Pimping out your atmosphere is one of the most effective ways to turn her on. It doesn’t have to be as cliché as incense and rose petals on the bedspread, but don’t underestimate the power of a little ‘Fling’ Shui. Try relaxing the setting with something a little more original, such as running through the sexiest selections in your record collection together. Don’t forget the subdued lighting: a soft pink glow hides many a flaw…and inhibition.

Boost Her Self-Confidence

Don’t talk about other girls you think are hot all night, just keep the focus on her, and how much you want her in less than obvious ways. Go gaga over how cute her toes are, or long her neck is. Compliment her intelligence and wit, with subtlety: “You know I don’t think I know one single person who would ‘get’ that joke…”  She will gain self-confidence and admire you in return, which will go a long way later when you’re taking her clothes off.

Dominance

Women generally want a man to take control — just don’t take it too far. You don’t want to get rape-y or forceful, just use your natural advantages to dominate her. When the date is winding down, say as a matter of fact that she’s staying at your place tonight. When she gets all coy and protests, stop her and maintain eye contact until she gives in.

Liquor

When all else fails, get her buzzed. (Note that this says buzzed and not wasted.) No one wants to wake up with regret in the morning — wondering what the hell you’ve done is a major turn off.

 

Is it a Relationship or Summer Fling?

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Summer is the season for pool parties, barbecues, and trips to the beach. For many single people, it is also an opportunity to have a summer fling. All that outdoor activity and summer fun can get people thinking of romance. Sometimes you meet somebody while you’re both on vacation, and you know in advance that when fall comes, you’ll be heading off to different cities.

Whether you’ll be staying in the same place or not at the end of the summer, the question that may be running through your mind is, “Is this just a summer fling, or could it lead to something more serious?” Here are some clues to look for. No single item is an indicator of a long-term relationship, but these are all positive signs.

1. You really like each other

Aside from the lust involved in a new relationship, do you truly enjoy spending time with each other? Do you truly like each other? It’s actually pretty easy to have a fling with somebody who is fun for awhile, knowing that you don’t really like them enough to make it long term. Think about how you feel, and see what you can tell about how they feel, too. If you both really like each other as people, and enjoy your time together, that’s a good start.

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2. You’re comfortable together

You know how some people always put you a little bit on edge, while other people make you instantly feel relaxed? While there’s a thrill to a fling with somebody in the first category, it doesn’t make for a long term relationship. Can you be yourself, or do you always feel like you’re trying to be something you’re not? For your fling to develop into more, you need to feel easy and comfortable around each other.

3. You both act “lovingly”

Does he do the little things that show he cares, like bringing your favorite wine for a romantic picnic? How about on your side? Did you remember his favorite dessert, and make it for him one evening? They say that actions speak louder than words, and that can be very true here. If you are both taking those steps that show you care about the other person, that is a good sign.

4. You have a rare closeness

This is hard to describe, but once you experience it, you know the feeling. When you’re together, you feel a certain rapport. It’s like a special kind of intimacy, and a shared understanding. Sometimes couples feel this very soon after they meet. For other people, it takes some time to develop. However it happens, this closeness can be a sign that you have something special.

Do you think about the future? When you allow yourself to daydream, do you see the two of you together sometime after summer ends? Has either of you ever mentioned getting together after August, like going to a concert together in November, or what you’re doing for Christmas? Even a casual mention can be a sign that there may be more to your romance than a summer fling.

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