How to Take A Sexy Selfie

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Tips on a Taking a Sexy Selfie


Everyone does it!  The mirror selfie, the stuck in traffic selfie, the Starbucks selfie and of course the “…but first #seflie” posts, so here are a few tips on how to take a sexy selfie … but first… #sexyselfie:



Let’s start by defining “sexy”, shall we?  According to Webster this, adjective is defined as “sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality.” So think about it – your selfie needs to be enticing, mysterious, and interesting. After talking to a few men, all with different ideas of the sexy women, their common answer was CONFIDENCE!


Sexy is a confident women! Plan and simple – if you’re going to take a selfie, own that shit! Put your hand up on your hip (when I dip, you dip, we dip), show off those legs, or pop out that booty!  Girl, take pride in your sexy parts.  Now, by taking pride, don’t reveal all your goodies!  Sometimes more is less.  Meaning, show off dat ass, but don’t bend so far over your vajaja is hanging out.  That is not sexy, that is soft porn, and you’ll probably get the boot from IG!


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Next, check your surroundings PLEASE!  Don’t end up as a #selfiefail! You will be forced to delete your account and open a new one to start over!  Put the toilet seats down and get your yesterday panties off the floor.  Moms, you’re sexy too, just make sure your kids are not photobombing!  On and Stuck in traffic seflies – please make sure you are ACTUALLY stuck in traffic; if not your Ray-Ban reflection will snitch!


Lastly, no more duck lips.  After the age of 14, duck lips are NOT cute and on the opposite side of the sexy scale radar.  Now, if you are a make-up artist and are showing off your latest lip gloss, ok, there are sexy lip selfies; however, the duck face fad is over!  Like… that snuggie you bought a few years back and ashamed to pull it out when guests are over.  Store the duck lips with the snuggie!


Now… go own that selfie girl!




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5 Successful Tips For Online Dating

In a time when just about everything has gone digital, why not dating as well? If you are new to the world of online dating, don’t be scared away. You can actually find the love of your life on the internet if you follow a few simple steps. There are a few tips to help you improve your chances of finding romance on the internet through online dating. Take a look at the 5 Successful Tips For Online Dating:

1. Don’t become discouraged.

Online dating requires patience. You aren’t going to find someone instantly, so don’t think that just because you have fast internet, that the online dating is going to work just as fast. You may find that you send many messages out and don’t get nearly as many responses back. You shouldn’t let this discourage you from moving forward with your efforts. The lack of replies doesn’t necessarily mean that the women you have contacted aren’t interested in you. You need to remember that these women may simply have too many messages to reply to and haven’t gotten around to you just yet. Again, being patient is one of the main keys to online dating.

2. A strong profile is important.

When creating your online profile, you want to stay away from stretching the truth as it will only come back later to haunt you. Be honest on your profile, but still try to word it out so that it makes you seem as good as possible. Also, when messaging a woman you find interesting, try to bring up something she mentioned in her profile. By doing this you are showing that you took the time to really look at her profile and learn something about her. She will see that you have an honest interest in getting to know her better, which will help you stand out.

3. Keep safety in mind.

In your journey to find a match through online dating you need to take certain steps for your own safety. Once you have found someone that you believe you have a connection with, the next step you should take is to speak over the phone. Once you have become comfortable with one another over the phone, you can then take the next step and meet in person. For the purposes of safety, you should choose an open public place so that in the event that something goes wrong on your date, you have the safety net of being in a public place.

4. Honesty is the best policy.

When venturing into the world of online dating, one key factor is honesty. You need to be honest about who you are. You shouldn’t exaggerate or lie about yourself as it won’t work out in the end. If you are open and honest, then when you do find someone who has an interest in you, they will be interested in the real you and not some facade you created for yourself. Be careful though as not everyone using online dating will be as honest and there are scams out there, so keep your guard up to a certain extent.

5. Do your best not to scare anyone off.

Don’t try to get too personal too quickly. This is virtual dating and until the person on the other end gets comfortable with you, you shouldn’t be trying to get into topics that are too sensitive. If you hit the wrong topic or try to rush into things, you are only going to scare off the person on the other end of the conversation. Play it cool so that you don’t run the risk of running off a potential date.

Keep track of these tips as you surf the net for a date and you should be able to get pretty far in your attempts for a real date.

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5 Texting Mistakes Men Make

We are in a digital age, but you need to be careful when texting a woman. There are some dos and don’ts and you don’t want to get caught up in a mistake that may cause you a date. You can easily kill the attraction you build up with a simple text mistake. Take mind to the following five tips and you should be safe. Here are the 5 Texting Mistakes Men Make:

1. Don’t send useless texts.

Make sure that if you are sending a text, that there is actually a reason for the message. Sending a text that really has no value is useless. Women don’t want you to waste their time, so if you are going to send her a text, make sure it is worth her time to read it and reply back.

2. Keep your message content clean.

You may want to send a dirty message or get a little sexual with your message but you need to stay away from doing this until the relationship has reached that level. Sending a dirty text too soon is going to give the impression that the only thing you have on your mind is sex and it is going to send your girl running as fast as she can.

3. Keep your conversation to a minimum.

The last thing you want to do is have a lengthy conversation through text. You need to get right to the point in a text and keep it short and sweet. Attempting to have a conversation through text is going to keep you out of the boyfriend category and it may land you a spot in the friend section.

4. Don’t overdo the texting.

You want to stay away from sending too many consecutive text messages before receiving a reply. Sending text after text and not giving her a chance to reply is only going to show instability on your part and that you have no life of your own.

5. Planning the first date.

The first date is important and she is going to want to see you in person to make the plans or at the very least hear your voice over the phone. She may not take you seriously if you decide to make your plans for the first date via text. It is very impersonal and you may come across as if you are using text messaging to hide something. Do things the right way and avoid texting date plans for your first date.

Pay attention to these tips as these are very common problems that you need to be aware of in the digital age. Avoid making these mistakes and you should do quite well with the ladies. Once your relationship gets more serious, then you need to read about the 5 Foods That Increase Your Sex Drive.