
Whether your sex life is slumping or you’re just always looking for ways to jazz each other’s juices, it’s always a good idea to get creative every once in a while. Regularly getting inventive in the bedroom will keep your sex life revving at your ideally zesty pace, and likely inspire your mate to do the same.
1. Roleplaying
While a French maid costume might seem like the pinnacle of cheesy, there are plenty of exciting roles to be played in the bedroom that won’t have your friends rolling their eyes at you the next day. Teacher and naughty student is a widely accepted favorite, but try thinking outside of the box and role play as his Sex Therapist.
2. Fifty Shades of YES: Light Bondage
A necktie can serve as a perfect restraint for both hands and feet, and can double as a blindfold or gag. Leave thigh-highs on in bed with the caveat that when they start to slip down, one partner gets tied up with them.
3. Get Ready for a Close-up
Just knowing you’re being filmed is enough to drive you both wild. Make sure you set flattering lighting beforehand but it’s not too dark to see yourselves. If one partner has any trepidation about your film getting out there, make a pact to delete it right after you watch it.
4. Take a Sudden Staycation
Let’s face it, even if you’ve been married for years, hotel sex is hot. Spontaneously pulling over and booking a room for the night is a great way to live out a sex fantasy without straying from your mate. Make sure it’s truly off the cuff, though. Too much planning can ruin the thrill, so no booking the room in advance or packing a toothbrush.
5. Get It in Writing
Courier your worn panties to him at the office with a note that reads simply “tonight.” Wait for him in bed in sexy new heels (and keep themon). Or, try slipping a note into his jacket pocket that lets him know that tonight, you’re giving yourself a crash course on how to give oral sex by watching porn, and you’ll need him there to practice on.